"The greatness of the human personality begins at the hour of birth."
Maria Montessori

Friday, January 29, 2010

Mommy I cut an Egg


Sophia was so excited to come home from school and tell me that she had "Cut and egg with Miss Helen". Miss Helen is her teacher and Sophia just loves her. She is very sweet and has a gentle nature about her. I know I have said before that Sophia loves to help me in the kitchen. I love to cook and I always loved cooking or watching my grandmother cook so it makes me extremely happy that Sophia has what seems like a natural love for being in the kitchen. We have made various things over the last year and a half one of which has been hard boiled eggs and then in turn made egg salad out of them. It was really amazing to see the excitement in her eyes when she told me that Miss Helen had a Hard boiled egg at school and that Miss Helen let her cut it up with the egg slicer. It was like she realized eggs were something that other people ate too. That eggs in fact existed outside of our very own kitchen. Montessori learning is very hands on approach to learning. It stresses independence and self reliance which I think builds great self esteem. We have always had this approach with Sophia in our home and she strives to do things for herself. Sophia was so proud that she cut that egg all by herself and she could not wait to share that with me.




We are loving the Montessori way...

Tuesday, January 12, 2010

Digital-age Brains

I thought you may find this interesting.

Digital-age brains a new challenge for educators
By Mark Anderson
Lives lived in the digital age are going to be fundamentally different from lives lived at any other time, and the reason—or culprit—will be our brains, says Gary Johnson, a licensed psychologist and family therapist and director of Loring Family’s C.A.L.M. clinic in Minneapolis.
Johnson delivered one of the keynote addresses at November’s NAMTA conference, exploring the effects that an increasingly digital environment is having on brain development, and the benefits and threats those pose to children.
Researchers are obtaining ever more detailed images of brain activities, and they’re discovering marked changes in brain size and capabilities—the result of living increasingly in an electronic world.
“Genetic changes in brains used to occur over thousands of years,” Johnson says, but the pace of change has picked up at an astonishing rate since the dawn of the Internet. “Children’s brains are significantly different now than they were just three generations ago.”
That was the time when we started to live with pervasive electronic inputs, beginning with TVs and moving to cell phones, DVRs, the Internet, YouTube, Facebook and Twitter. Research conducted several years ago concluded that children were participating in electronic activities for eight-and-a-half hours each day.
Johnson says that number is certainly higher today.
Children and adults are separated now not just by their difference in age or fashion, but by a deep digital divide. On one side are the digital natives, young people weaned and nourished on a steady diet of electronic experience. Their incessant online activity has sharpened many valuable skills. They’re able to multitask, in the sense of moving rapidly and effectively from one task to another. Their peripheral vision is improved—thanks to those years of rapidly scanning screens—and their ability to sift large amounts of information also outpaces their elders.
On the other side are digital immigrants, the elders who may have picked up many electronic skills, but whose brains are shaped by old-fashioned physical and communal pastimes.
Immigrants are slower, but they probe deeper into subjects. One study showed that immigrants and natives matched performance on a series of tasks until they were confronted with an Internet search. The immigrants pursued topics at length, through numerous online links; the natives followed two links then moved on to the next topic.
Mapping also shows that when natives are engaged in online tasks the portion of their brain mass that’s active is much larger than in their older peers—their brains steadily devote more connections to the intriguing challenges they face and master, hour after hour.
But some of the consequences that researchers discovered as results of those radical changes are sobering and demand our response. A brain shaped by video games rather than interaction with other children, nature and caring adults displays predictable outcomes. Children now have less skill at face-to-face interactions than in the past. They can’t discern emotional tones. They can’t read subtle nonverbal communication, and they feel less empathy.
All that means that their ability to connect with others is weakened, Johnson says.
Those emerging deficits will leave a generation with little aptitude in the most important human activities unless elders and educators adapt, he says. “If you assume kids are learning like you did, you’re wrong. We’re going to have to teach social skills now in schools. Otherwise we’ll have a generation that can do well on tests, but they’ll have crappy relationships.”
The Montessori educators are in a position to lead the educational response because these children won’t respond to lectures and texts, they’ll respond to guides. And you’re already there.”
But the threat is formidable, and Johnson warned that children with special needs will often be especially vulnerable. For children who already feel their differences acutely and painfully, an additional measure of isolation means loneliness and resentment. And the haven that Johnson worries that youngster will fall into is the vivid, controllable world of online games, a frequently violent world filled with hazards alongside its wonders.
INFO: The website for Johnson’s Clinic for Attention, Learning and Memory is www.calm.us.

Monday, January 4, 2010

The First Day of School


Today we were once again amazed at the resilience of our daughter. We were worried that she would be timid,scared or worried about going to a strange place and being left there without us. When you adopt a child that has the history that our daughter does you worry about things like this, maybe every parent worries but we felt like we were worried a bit more then normal. It was all for nothing our girl did GREAT! When we got up this morning she was ready to go. Usually she likes to linger in her PJ's and eat breakfast several hours after getting up. This morning she wanted to get dressed right away and asked me for oatmeal for breakfast. We stood at the counter making her oatmeal together, talking about what to expect when we get to school. She was so happy and excited about what was in front of her at school. When we got there she could barely wait to get out of the car. She held my hand as we walked into school and down the long hall to her classroom.The school that she is attending does preschool through the 8th grade.Today was the first day back from Christmas brake so there were kids, parents and teachers everywhere you looked. Sophia was not at all intimidated by all of this.She smiled at everyone we passed in the hall. When we reached the door to her classroom we were greeted by one of the two teachers for her class, Miss Sharon. She was very pleasant and got right down on Sophia's level to talk to her. Sophia was very excited to show Miss Sharon her lunch box and the banana that we had sent with her for snack time. Miss Sharon helped Sophia with placing her snack in the "Snack Basket" across the room from the door where we were standing. Sophia went happily with her and then placed her bag in her cubby hole that has her name on it. She then came over to us and I helped her hang her coat on the hook that had her picture on it. She kissed us and said by by mommy and daddy. We left without any tears from her or us, amazing I know. I will admit once in the car I got a little misty at the thought of my baby starting school. Riz and I took that time to go have breakfast and then run some errands. About 1 1/2 hours into it the school called and Sophia was ready to be picked up. Once she realized we were gone she had a bit of a melt down. It wasn't until about an hour after they called that we got the message, so by the time we got to the school to pick her up she was happily working with the other kids in her class. We could see thorough the window that she was fine so we decided to let her finish out her day without interruption. We waited for her in the adjoining classroom so she would not see us and get distracted. When it was time for the class to be dismissed the teacher had all the kids stand in the hall and hold onto a rope. Then they all walked holding the rope to the outside toddler activity area. We peaked out the door to see her, she was first in line and bossing everyone around. This is what we heard "time to go" "time to go outside" "hold the rope kids" "stay in line kids" WOW! how did she get so bossy? LOL. In reality it was great to see that she was so excited and confident in the morning. It was even good that she had a "Melt Down" when she realized we were gone. From the point of view of attachment and bonding that is a good thing. We are of course happy that she recovered and enjoyed her first day. When we went to the toddler activity area to pick her up she saw us but kept right on playing with the other kids. She was busy picking up sticks and putting them into a wheelbarrow with an other little girl. They also have Chickens and Bunnies that all the kids just love to play with, Sophia included. Finally when she came over to us she said "mommy baby(meaning herself)cried, but is OK now" then ran off to play some more. A few minutes later she came back and asked if she could come tomorrow. I said of course baby you can come back tomorrow. She turned gave her teacher, Miss Helen, a hug, picked up her lunch box and took my hand. As we left the parking lot of the school she waved at the school and said "Don't go anywhere school, be back tomorrow" all while waving her finger in the air... So all in all I would say Sophia's first day of school was a big success. now lets see how day number two goes, I hope as well as the first..LOL

Sophia's favorite TV Show is Little Bill


a Lollipop made hr smile

(she pooped in the potty before school)

our school girl


Already for school
The Children's House


Sophia's classroom
Update : Tonight Sophia talked on an on about school. Sh sat fo 45 minutes writing her name with Riz and then when I took her to bed she told me Mommy no want to go to school anymore. OH NO tomorrow is going to be harder then today I can see it now LOL...

Sunday, January 3, 2010

Twas the night before Sophia's first day of school

Sophia had her bath is eating dinner before her first day of school
Her School





and there happens to be a nice little park right next to the school


She is going to love it there

She loves this turtle
Stay tuned for the first day of school pictures....